Posts tagged fearless
5 Habits that’s a must for Millennials in 2019

Christmas time is almost here, which can only mean one thing.  The New Year is right around the corner.  As we take inventory of all the people we are cutting off and leaving behind in 2018.  It’s another thing that you must consider to reach new levels and achieve your goals in 2019. 

HABITS!

You become what you do daily.  And if you want to fear LESS so that you can do more in the New Year, here are a couple habits that you should start to practice. 

Gratitude

It is easy to find things that aren’t going your way and fall down the black hole of complaining. Which usually opens up a can for a bad day. 

“The traffic is bad”

“I can’t find a place to park”

“My project didn’t save”

“…this is the worse day ever!”

Instead, when you wake up begin to write down three things that you are thankful for.  If you don’t think you have anything to be thankful for take a moment to reflect on some things that you may be taking for granted.  One day, I wrote down how I was thankful that heat rises, because I stayed on the third floor and didn’t have to turn my heat on (cheaper electricity bill, AYE). 

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Give New Bae a Chance: How to let go and live fearless

I bet that it was a surprise that “The Fear Hurdler” is talking about livin’ fearless.  Of course, I like to talk about fear.  Some would even go as far as to say that I live fearlessly.  Though I would agree.  But how could I live this fearless life and still be scared? Actually deathly afraid at times.  Wouldn’t that be backwards…..

What if I told you that livin’ fearless had nothing to do with NOT experiencing fear?

Let me put it like this.  You know your ex-boo wasn’t any good.  They had Tiger Wood amounts of “Becky’s with the good hair.”  It never fails that they pop up with the “how you been big head” messages when you meet a new fine piece of chocolate; well ex boo…..that’s fear!

At this point in life, you can almost time their entrance.  You expect them to be there.  When we tend to fall for the old lies of “I’m a changed person, I promise I’ll do right this time” we fall for the old lies only to find ourselves bustin’ windows out of their car only months later. 

The dictionary tells us that the word “fearless” is to be without fear.

That’s stupid.  Fear is always going to be around.  But you really want to know what fearless really is? It’s expecting, almost anticipating FEAR, but not allowing it to hold you enslaved!

I know that when I find myself in my next relationship (bae where you at? Stop playing lol) I will look in my inbox, see the “I miss you” message and keep it moving.  If I continue to fall for the same ole lies, I will never receive the fullness in a relationship that was meant for me.  Chile, I already know what a relationship with ex-boo is going to bring me. 

But a relationship with new bae; no telling what it may bring me.  Will it guarantee happiness…….no. But I never know the new possibilities if I don’t stop replaying the past. 

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