Posts tagged feelings
It's not that deep: How being petty ruins productivity

A couple weeks ago I talked about time, and how everyone has the same 24 hours as the next person; but it just comes down to how it is utilized (just in case you don’t remember "Ain't Nobody Got Time For That").  But what about how we spend our mental time?

Have you found yourself trying to complete a project at work, but just cant help but replay an argument in your head that happened yesterday. How much time have we wasted feeling “some type of way” about an issue? (am I the only one that read that in Rich Homie Quan Voice?

Analyzing and breaking it down as if it was a murder trial? And the gag is that the event is not even a life altering change, like a new job or deciding to have kids; but very basic. Your co-worker responds to your text message with “….K.” 

“WTF did she mean dot dot dot dot K! Why she just couldn’t put ok? She always gotta be so extra and sarcastic!”

Instead of focusing on writing a business proposal, revamping your resume, or creating a plan to be great in this world; you are now wasting  time analyzing four dots and the letter K.  How many of us have found ourselves in similar situations? I know that I have!  I have said it once and I will say it again, TIME IS ONE VARIABLE IN LIFE THAT WE CAN NEVER GET BACK; so why do we CONTINUE to give attention to situations that don’t matter and to be honest…..IT’S REALLY NOT THAT DEEP!

Feelings are not Facts

You’re walking in the mall with your crew, and y'all walk pass a girl and her boo….you look at her, she glances at you.  Now all of the sudden you FEEL offended.  “Giiirrrlll that nappy headed heffa got one mo time to look at me, she probably mad because her man wants me.” 

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