Posts tagged mindset
3 things to do when you don’t believe your In dreams

A couple months ago I had a conversation with a co-worker.  She shared with me that she wanted to seek other opportunities outside of the organization.  Being a connector, I was curious to see what her desired position was. Never know who I had in my circle that could help her out.  “I would love to be a Nurse, but that would NEVER happen.”

…NEVER?

Big dreams. Limited vision.  My co-worker could create what life could be but her eyes didn’t allow her to see it.  If she allowed herself to, she would see that her dreams were in reach.

Do you find yourself developing dope concepts and ideas in your head? Only to follow it with “that will NEVER happen!” Does it seem that success is reserved for a limited few? What if I told you that it was possible.  Time to see your dreams with a new vision.

1. Reroute Limitations

Fact about Jasamine.  I am a VERY picky eater. If you want someone to try a dish out, I am NOT your girl.  That doesn’t stop people from asking me. 

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Tired of being broke: how to have more money without making more

Is it just me, or is anyone else tired of being broke? 

Paydays are just a myth, because after I take care of bills, it is like it NEVER happened....

 

When my paycheck was chump change (more like minimum wage); my first thought was that I needed more money in order to have more.  But then I started a position that doubled my previous salary, in addition to working a part time job,and my pockets still carried lint in them. Of course me being the millennial that I am, I did what we all do…..start to look at other positions that paid more.   

It was in that moment that I stopped myself and asked a valuable question “Why am I always broke?” It wasn’t as if I was out here wearing Red Bottoms and Gucci belts, in reality it didn’t feel that I was spending money on much.  And how could I dare think about building a savings account, if I didn't have any money to put in it?  

I had to figure it out, because clearly making more money wasn’t going to fix this problem until I got to the root of it.

Change Of Mindset

Have you ever talked so much that everyone stopped listening? (I talk A LOT so this just may be my testimony.....).  The hour and thirty minute story that you just told about that one time in band camp, went in one ear and out the other......

Well, when we talk to ourselves believe it or not our subconscious keeps an attentive ear.  It soaks up everything that you say about yourself “I can’t save,”  “I never have any money,” “I’m always going to be broke.”  Though these sayings don’t seem as if they mean much, but in reality our subconscious takes heed and plays out on everything we just said. 

In January I added financial books to my reading routine.  I just knew that by adding this it would give me a blueprint on how to start making it rain. 

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