……..Snakes in the grass, the haters, and can’t forget about the doubters…
I talk a lot about these people, but we have yet to touch on the “Ride or Dies.” The people who are in your corner, cheering every step, and motivating when you get knocked out; there is no doubt that they have your back.
Although they play a HUGE part within our progress, we at times forget about these people. But let me not get ahead of myself, I’ll get back to that.
First, I must say that I have an AMAZE BALLS crew. They not only support all that I have ever done, but also believe in my dream just as much as I do. Just the other day I was talking to my brother about a piece of equipment that I needed for a project that I am working on (btw, I can’t wait to release a couple things that I’ve been working on in the next couple of weeks). Much like myself, my bro can always find a hook up for the low low; and you already know I’m a penny pincher, so I needed his expertise. He hits me up a couple days later to inform me that he had already bought it for me.
He didn’t have to but he gets my vision and backs it in any way that he can.
It is always important to have some folks that support you. The motivation alone can pull you out of the pit when you begin to doubt yourself. Here are a couple ways to react when people show you love (and take some tips if you feel that you are in this alone….).
We can view support from our inner circle as an obligation versus a choice. Let’s look at it this way. A nice gentleman holds the door open for us; some women won’t even say thank you, because they feel as if that is what he is supposed to do. After several times of no acknowledgement, he may let that door smack you in the face, because you did not appreciate the gesture.Read More